The heart is an interesting subject in the Bible. We know from scripture that a heart can fail, can faint, can be glad, willing, stirred, discouraged,
obstinate, upright and sometimes deceitful and desperately wicked. One of the intriguing things that can happen to the heart is that it can be hardened.
The hardening of a heart is really related to faith and unbelief. When one really doesn’t believe something, they will turn against it. It’s hard to turn
against something you believe in. So, where there is faith there is a soft heart, and where there is unbelief there will be a heart as hard as a rock.
Hebrews talks about this very subject. In chapter 4, the words “unbelief” and “hardness of heart” are interchangeable. Speaking of those Hebrews that
didn’t get to enter into the Promised Land, it says, “…and they to whom it was first preached entered not in because of unbelief.” And, in the next verse,
“…today if ye will hear His voice, harden not your hearts.”
Hebrews 4:6-7
By not believing in God’s promises, the Hebrews hardened their hearts against Him, and as a result, lost their promise. Hebrews 4:2 states that, “For unto
us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it.”
Faith has to mixed into everything that we do to keep our hearts soft toward God. If we let unbelief slip in, it is the same thing as adding a little bit of
concrete to a bread recipe– the bread is going to get hard!
It is very easy to let a heart harden. We can rebelliously and knowingly choose to not obey God, showing him that we don’t ultimately believe what He tells
us. This way hardens the heart very quickly. We can also hear God speak to us, and choose to do nothing. Every time this happens, we are choosing the path
of unbelief and letting our heart harden just a little more. Either way, we are making a choice, whether it be active or passive.
Letting our hard hearts soften again can seem difficult. We have to mix faith with humility and take away our pride. We have to choose to have faith in
God’s promises and act on what we know is true. We have to repent, and truly turn away from the unbelief. It takes work!
By choosing faith, we choose to live our lives in such a way that God can reach us, nudge us in a direction and speak to our heart when He needs us to act.
By choosing to live in faith, we are choosing to live a life with a heart for God– a tender heart.