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How To Live Life

1.Faith
The basis of salvation comes from knowing, by faith, that there is a God.
With this must come understanding that we know God and believe what the Bible says as truth.
Again, by faith we must believe that the Bible is God’s word, not just a story book man came up with.

John 1:1
In the beginning was the word, and the word was with God, and the word was God.
The Bible is a passageway of knowing how God wants us to live our lives.
Oftentimes people ask “how are we supposed to read the Bible, literally or figuratively?” Well, the answer is both. Jesus provided parables that we may

understand and apply to situations in our own life.

The Bible is the most accurate History book as well as the best “how-to” book out there. Every possible scenario is not in the Bible specifically, but each

situation is covered some how or another. If we need help with a situation and can’t figure out how to relate scripture to ourselves, we are to pray.
Relax, we are not ever expected to know everything. We don’t need to know the keys to life or how to solve the problem of world peace. We are humans,

imperfect since first man, excluding Jesus.

We think we have to know how to do everything right, but truth is, we won’t. Our struggles on earth remain here.
There is greater life in Heaven. We are here, struggling together and having as many good days as possible. We are sharing how joyful life can be, knowing

how Great God is, and that one day we will be living without worry in Heaven.
Don’t fret that you don’t know your purpose or what you are supposed to be doing by now. Realize that our answers come from God. Until we except that, we

can’t do what we want when we want and get Godly results. God may not present himself to us the way we want Him to.

Moving Forward

Going Past Defeat

If you have been a human being for very long, then you have probably found yourself face-to-face with defeat a couple of times by now. We must realize that defeat is real, that it can happen in any area of our lives (at work, as a parent, as a youth leader, etc), and that it can destroy your spiritual walk if not dealt with in the proper manner.

God allows us to face situations in our life. Before you have a testimony you have to have a test. Trials and tribulation aren’t one of the fun things to deal with, but every test has two outcomes: pass or fail. We can view these situations in one of two ways: a stumbling block and a reason to quit entirely, or as a stepping stone that we can learn a valuable lesson from.

Peter is a prime example of going past defeat.  In Matthew 14:29-31, we read that he failed at walking on water, Matthew 26:74-75 tells us that he denied Jesus, but then in Acts 2:14 he preached the greatest sermon ever, and went on to start the modern day church!

But that’s a Biblical example, and we have trouble relating to those. What about us carnal people?

History tells us about a man who lost his job, failed in business, his sweetheart died, had a nervous breakdown, lost many elections and reelections, but in 1860 Abraham Lincoln overcame all his defeats to become President. How many times must he have been depressed? How many times did he want to quit?

Ecclesiastes 9:4
“For to him that is joined to all the living there is hope: for a living dog is better than dead lion.”

If you give up, then there is no hope! As long as you stay in the fight there is hope. Fight, fight, fight, then fight some more.

Micah 7:8
“Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me.”

Notice that the Bible says “when I fall” and not “if I fall”? As long as you are flesh, you will fall from time to time.  I have seen people get saved, and be so excited, but when they made one mistake it destroyed them. They were so happy with the change, but when sin crept in, it knocked them out. The devil will ALWAYS capitalize on GUILT TRIPS and PITY PARTIES. Don’t give him room to do so!

Philemon 4:8
“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

Peter On The Defense

Hopefully you know the story about Cornelius (Acts 10) receiving the Holy Ghost. He was the first
non-Jew that received it, making it evident that the promise of the Holy Ghost was for the Gentiles, as well as the Jews. Peter was there when it happened.

Something that major is never going to go unnoticed. Chapter 11:1 tells us that the brethren (other believers) heard that the Gentiles received the Holy Ghost, and that Peter had been in their house, and ate with them. Chapter 11 gives us the details of Peter’s defense.

As with a legal case there were three major things that took place.

1) The accusation (11:1-3)
The response on the part of Jewish Christians was mixed. The expression circumcised believers used (also used in 10:45) evidently describes Christians who still held to the Law of Moses (cf. 15:5; 21:20; Gal 2:12).

The accusation lodged against Peter was that he went into the house of uncircumcised men and ate with them. The primary problem was not his preaching to Gentiles but his eating with them. This gives even greater significance to Peter’s vision (Acts 10:9-16). Eating with someone was a mark of acceptance and fellowship. This problem could have caused a serious break in the church.

1 Cor 5:11
But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

2) The Defense (11:4-17)
Peter saw that a potentially dangerous situation was possible, but that it could be avoided.

Acts 11:4
But Peter rehearsed the matter from the beginning…

Peter recounted to the circumcised believers in Jerusalem briefly what had occurred, including his vision, his response to it, and the trip to Cornelius’ house. In recounting what happened next, Peter made an important identification of the day of Pentecost with the Lord’s prediction of Spirit baptism. The Church Age, then, began on the day of Pentecost. Peter’s defense did not rest on what he himself did, but on what God did. God had made no distinction between Jew and Gentile, so how could Peter?

Acts 11:17
Forasmuch then as God gave them the like gift as he did unto us, who believed on the Lord Jesus Christ; what was I, that I could withstand God?

Peter didn’t start explaining why He did what he did, and start an argument; he showed them that it was what God did, not what he did. If you manufacture it, you will pay for it, if God manufactures it, He will pay for it.

ALWAYS DO IT GODS WAY – That way if things go south, and you end up having to defend yourself you can know that you did what you were supposed to do, and if your accusers have a problem with it, they can take it up with Him!

Acts 5 gives us another example of doing it God’s way. The disciples were on trial for preaching the Gospel. When the priests sought to kill them, a wise man named Gamaliel brought up a very good point.

Acts 5:38-39
And now I say unto you, Refrain from these men, and let them alone: for if this counsel or this work be of men, it will come to nought: 39 But if it be of God, ye cannot overthrow it; lest haply ye be found even to fight against God.

3) The acquittal (11:18)
With Peter the saints recognized that the conversion of Gentiles was initiated by God and that they should not stand in His way. This response had two ensuing and significant results. First, it preserved the unity of the body of Christ, the church. Second, it drove a huge wedge between Church-Age believers and temple-worshipers in Jerusalem. Notice how a potentially large argument and church split was avoided, in a very professional manner.

Peter was wise in how he handled the situation. Would we have done the same thing? Or would we have flew off the handle as soon as we heard we were being a accused? Would we have taken time to potentially explain everything without taking sides? Would we have realized that God’s Will is better than our will even if we don’t understand it?

We should model our lives on the patience that Peter displayed. There is a reason Jesus gave him the keys to the Kingdom, after all.

“Aint no rock gonna cry in my place
as long as Im alive Ill glorify His holy Name
Hes the One who came and died on the Cross
So you better recommend Him as your Boss
Im in this world to surrender my soul to Jesus Christ
whom I know sacrificed His Flesh and Body
and died for our sins
got nailed by His hands and Feet by three pins
chica-what!”

Bearing Fruit

Spring is FINALLY here, and many of us are already busy in our gardens and flower beds, eager to see the plants we’ve planted bring forth what they are supposed to.
John 15:1-8
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman. Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit. Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you. Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me. I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned. If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you. Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.”
The Bible goes on to say what happens to trees that do not bear fruit:
Matthew 21:19
“And when he saw a fig tree in the way, he came to it, and found nothing thereon, but leaves only, and said unto it, Let no fruit grow on thee henceforward forever.”
Mark 11:20-21
“And in the morning, as they passed by, they saw the fig tree dried up from the roots. And Peter calling to remembrance saith unto him, Master, behold, the fig tree which thou cursedst is withered away.”
But, the Bible also lets us know what happens to trees that do bear fruit:
Luke 13:9
“And if it bear fruit, well: and if not, then after that thou shalt cut it down.”
Look back at John 15:2 – Why would He PURGE a branch that bears fruit?
Definitions of  Purge:
- purify: make pure or free from sin or guilt; “he left the monastery purified”
- rid of impurities; “purge the water”; “purge your mind”
- an act of removing by cleansing; ridding of sediment or other undesired elements
A question was asked on answers.yahoo.com about trimming plants. Here are the highlights of the conversation:
“Q: How do you trim (hanging) plants so they grow faster?
A: take it down, and first, trim off all the dead stuff. Most should just pull away without needing scissors.
Second, once you have gotten rid of the dead stuff, Look to see if the “hanging” parts are the length you want, or do you want them shorter? Also, is it real leafy on the stuff that hangs down, but the stuff “in” the pot is real bare?
If yes to either/both questions is yes, what you want to do is trim back the hanging stems/branches. Choose the length you think you want, and cut PAST the leaf in that area. Within a few months, you’ll be able to plant the new shoots, and your “mother” plant will look healthy and beautiful.By trimming back, it will encourage new growth.”
If the plant could talk it would tell you that getting cut back hurts! Sometimes God has to purge us, and trim us to get the useless junk out of our lives. If it isn’t profitable for the Kingdom do we really need it? We like to look back and say that we aren’t what we used to be, but to get to where we are now God has purged us of things that held us back.  If Heaven is the goal we have to continue to let Him work on us.
While we’re on the subject of bearing fruit, the Bible says you shall know a person by their fruits:
Matthew 7:16-20
“Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.”
Galatians 5:22-23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.”
If someone proclaims to be a child of God, or even proclaims to have the Holy Ghost, but does not bear fruit, one can question if they really are what they advertise themselves to be. By the fruit you will know them! But you can’t bear all this good fruit and bear the fruit listed in Galatians 5:19.

Tunnel Vision

In medical terms, tunnel vision is defined as the loss of peripheral vision with retention of central vision, resulting in a constricted circular tunnel-like field of vision.

As a metaphor, tunnel vision denotes the reluctance of individuals to consider alternatives to their preferred line of thought. This could include physicians treating afflictions, detectives considering crime suspects, or anyone predisposed to a favored outcome.

There are Biblical examples of tunnel vision, both good and bad. Judges 6 tells us the story of Gideon. The Midianites were starving the Israelites.

“And Israel was greatly impoverished because of the Midianites; and the children of Israel cried unto the LORD.” But help was going to come through a man named Gideon. “And the angel of the LORD appeared unto him, and said unto him, The LORD is with thee, thou mighty man of valour.”

How would you react?! An ANGEL came to Gideon! Not a prophet, not even an angel in a dream. One would think that Gideon would be super-charged, but he responded with doubt and questioning.

“And Gideon said unto him, Oh my Lord, if the LORD be with us, why then is all this befallen us? and where be all His miracles which our fathers told us of, saying, Did not the LORD bring us up from Egypt? but now the LORD hath forsaken us, and delivered us into the hands of the Midianites. And the LORD looked upon him, and said, Go in this thy might, and thou shalt save Israel from the hand of the Midianites: have not I sent thee? And he said unto Him, Oh my Lord, wherewith shall I save Israel? behold, my family is poor in Manasseh, and I am the least in my father’s house. And the LORD said unto him, Surely I will be with thee, and thou shalt smite the Midianites as one man.” Even after that pep talk Gideon had to have fire from a rock, and signs through a fleece to believe. Gideon had tunnel vision, but in the wrong way. He was focused on all the circumstance around him.

On the other hand, David had tunnel vision, but the good kind. “David said moreover, The LORD that delivered me out of the paw of the lion, and out of the paw of the bear, He will deliver me out of the hand of this Philistine. And Saul said unto David, Go, and the LORD be with thee.”

I Samuel 17:37 “This day will the LORD deliver thee into mine hand; and I will smite thee, and take thine head from thee; and I will give the carcases of the host of the Philistines this day unto the fowls of the air, and to the wild beasts of the earth; that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel.”

I Samuel 17:46

David had unbelievable amounts of opposition: his brothers, the king, and a giant who was verbally tearing him apart, yet nothing would deter David from killing that giant. He was focused on the goal and was confident in the outcome; there was no telling him otherwise. He focused on God and what God was able to do, not all the noise that was going around him. “My God is with me, no matter what’s going on around me!”

How can we relate this to the day-to-day? Sometimes we get so focused on the bad things around us we lose focus on what God is working out for us. He uses difficult situations to make us what He wants us to be. No matter how bad the surroundings may be we need to know that it is an opportunity for God to work on us and through us!

What are you focusing on?

Gold Or Nothing

I love the Olympics! I purchased a special antenna just to be able to watch them. Every athlete there has trained hard everyday, and has been on a strict diet, just for a chance to win a gold medal and represent their country.

Yet, so many times the difference between gold and silver can be 1/100th of a second! Or in other words, 1/100th of a second can mean going home with a medal, or going home empty handed.

Rarely does the media talk about much more than the one who won the gold, and let’s face it, gold sounds a lot better than silver. First sounds a lot better than second. So in the eyes of most people it’s either gold or it’s nothing: pass or fail.

Spiritually speaking, we are in training everyday. When a difficult situation arises in my life, I try to think of it as a training experience. It’s a test, and at the end of the day I have either passed or failed. “Well I did good except for that one little thing” does not cut it when it comes to making it to Heaven!

Matthew 7:22-23
“Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Thy name? and in Thy name have cast out devils? and in Thy name done many wonderful works?And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from Me, ye that work iniquity.”

1/100th of an inch… Oh so close.

My uncle told me a dream he had one time that has stuck with me for years now. When he was younger he worked at a saw mill. In his dream he said that he and others had been working hard on getting a load of lumber ready to leave. It was loaded on the truck, and he said that it was the nicest load of boards that he had ever seen. But, the inspector came out with a measuring tape, measured the load, and looked at them and said “It’s no good; you’ve came up short.”

I don’t know what it will be like when I am at the gates, but I do know that I don’t want to be told that I have come up short. It sounds scary I know, but when it comes to eternity, why take chances? I don’t want to just slide in on a thread; I want to know that I have been that “good and faithful servant.”

1 Cor. 9:23-25
“And this I do for the gospel’s sake, that I might be partaker thereof with you.
Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain.
And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.”

We obviously aren’t in a race with each other, we are here to help each other. But the goal is Heaven. The goal is better than a gold medal; it is an incorruptible crown.

How’s your training going?

Decisions and Consequences

2 Samuel 11:2
“And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon.”

Genesis 39:11-12
“And it came to pass about this time, that Joseph went into the house to do his business; and there was none of the men of the house there within. And she caught him by his garment, saying, Lie with me: and he left his garment in her hand, and fled, and got him out.”

Our decisions have consequences… always. Purchasing a new car, deciding what college we want to go to, and what career we are going to pursue are all regarded as important decisions. But sometimes we are faced with decisions that are even more difficult than those.

In the scriptures above we find David and Joseph in very similar situations. Each man had a decision to make. David made one decision, Joseph made another. One gave into temptation the other fled from it, or to simplify it, one made the right decision, and one made the wrong decision.

Decisions deserve consideration. The devil, as always, will try to interfere with our decision making process. He will use things like “the quick fix”, and “it won’t happen to me”. The graveyard is full of people who were deceived by these.

The most important decision that we will ever make is whether or not we will live for God. We should always ask ourselves what the consequences are going to be and how they will affect our spiritual relationship with God.

2 Samuel 11:27
“And when the mourning was past, David sent and fetched her to his house, and she became his wife, and bare him a son. But the thing that David had done displeased the Lord.”

2 Samuel 12:19
“But when David saw that his servants whispered, David perceived that the child was dead: therefore David said unto his servants, Is the child dead? And they said, He is dead.”

David made the wrong decision, and because of it, Uriah died, and the child died. Joseph, on the other hand, made the right decision, but surprisingly wound up in jail! Sometimes it takes a while for the consequence to come to pass.

Genesis 41:39-41
“And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, Forasmuch as God hath shewed thee all this, there is none so discreet and wise as thou art: Thou shalt be over my house, and according unto thy word shall all my people be ruled: only in the throne will I be greater than thou. And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, See, I have set thee over all the land of Egypt.”
 
Decisions made with patience and wisdom will result in good consequences and outcomes, even if it takes a while.

Romans 8:28
“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”